URGENT UPDATE: A shocking incident has ignited outrage after a man received a handwritten note accusing him of abusing a disability parking space at Wanda Surf Club on December 24, 2023. The note, which claimed, “Thanks for taking the parking spot from someone with a real handicap,” was left on the couple’s car while they were at the club.
The Sutherland Shire resident, whose wife suffers from a terminal condition known as Vascular Ehlers Danlos syndrome, expressed his disgust over the incident, stating he was “sick with anger” at the insensitivity displayed. He revealed that the couple had faced similar scrutiny just the day before, when a man in the club gym questioned their right to park in the disability zone, asserting they “didn’t look disabled.”
“This is not just a minor issue; it’s a matter of life and death,” the man stressed. His wife’s condition has led to multiple strokes and cardiac arrests, making their need for accessible parking critical.
After the note was left, the man contacted the club, receiving a call later that day from Fiona Sutton, the club president. She confirmed that the note was indeed written on the club’s stationery and expressed her apologies for the distress caused. “We are reviewing the matter,” Sutton stated, but emphasized that it would be inappropriate to discuss specific details as the investigation is ongoing.
The man voiced his concern not just for his wife but for others who may not be as resilient in facing such challenges. “It’s our daughter and others who may not be as strong who bear the brunt of this kind of action by the most nasty, inconsiderate people,” he said.
This incident has raised significant questions about the treatment of individuals with disabilities and highlights the ongoing need for greater awareness and compassion in public spaces. The community is rallying around this family, urging for respect and understanding towards those facing health challenges.
As the situation develops, many are watching closely for the club’s response and any measures that may be implemented to prevent such incidents in the future. The couple hopes that sharing their story will encourage others to think before making assumptions about those with visible or invisible disabilities.
Stay tuned for updates as authorities continue to investigate this deeply troubling event.


































