Selena Gomez opened up about her emotional experience following her recent wedding to music producer Benny Blanco. During a discussion at the Fortune’s Most Powerful Women conference on October 15, 2025, Gomez revealed that she often struggles to fully embrace life’s joyous moments due to a deep-seated fear of loss. This fear became particularly poignant after her nuptials, leading her to sob uncontrollably as she contemplated the fragility of happiness.
Fear of Loss Shadows Joyful Moments
The actress, known for her role in Only Murders In The Building, shared her internal conflict with the audience. “I would say that’s my biggest conflict sometimes when wonderful things happen. I got married and then I was sobbing because I was like, ‘I’m gonna die the next day,’” she stated. Gomez emphasized that this perspective often prevents her from enjoying significant milestones, as she finds herself caught in a cycle of anxiety rather than celebration.
Despite the success of her Rare Beauty brand, which was recently valued at more than $2 billion, Gomez expressed feelings of unworthiness in the high-profile environment of the conference. “This is how I work personally; when something great happens, I expect something bad to follow. Instead of being present and saying, ‘Okay, wow, we’ve done a great thing,’ I’m always thinking, ‘Okay, but this could all go away tomorrow,’” she explained, highlighting her tendency to focus on potential negatives.
Family Aspirations and Nostalgic Reflections
In addition to discussing her fears, Gomez shared her hopes for the future, mentioning her desire to have children “one day.” This aspiration was sparked by a recent episode of Wizards of Waverly Place, where her character, Alex Russo, became a mother. The emotional weight of this revelation resonated with both Gomez and her co-star, Janice LeAnn Brown, who reflected on the nostalgic significance of the moment.
After the episode aired, Gomez posted a clip on her Instagram Story, stating, “Alex Russo is a mommy. Hopefully one day that’ll be me.” In a follow-up interview, Brown described the experience as deeply emotional, particularly during the table read. “We were just puddles,” she said, underscoring the bond they share over their characters’ journeys.
Gomez’s candid remarks about her joys and fears provide a glimpse into the complexities of her life as a public figure. Balancing success with personal anxieties, she continues to inspire many with her honesty and vulnerability.
