Australian singer Firerose has released a powerful TikTok video accusing her ex-husband, Billy Ray Cyrus, of “narcissistic abuse” during their brief marriage. The couple wed in October 2023 but separated just seven months later, finalizing their divorce in 2024. In her video, Firerose, whose real name is Johanna Rosie Hodges, shares her experience behind closed doors, shedding light on the alleged emotional turmoil she faced.
The TikTok video, which was also shared as a Reel on Instagram on December 4, features footage of the couple in happier times, juxtaposed with Firerose’s message to her younger self. She warns, “In your 20s you’ll meet a 49-year-old man who convinces you you’re his soulmate… It is very important you don’t believe him.” This particular line has resonated widely on social media, drawing significant attention.
Firerose directly addresses other survivors of narcissistic abuse in her post, stating, “If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, you’re not alone. It’s chilling how similar survivors’ experiences really are.” She describes a familiar pattern of control, isolation, and manipulation, urging others to recognize that they are not alone in their struggles. Her message concludes with a note of hope: “But I promise, God sees everything and there is a light at the end of the tunnel.”
Firerose has previously discussed her tumultuous relationship in an interview with The Sunday Telegraph‘s Stellar magazine, describing how she felt increasingly isolated. Reflecting on her experiences, she said, “When I think about what I just went through, I would have told my 22-year-old self to run in the opposite direction and never look back.” She revealed that friends and family noticed her withdrawal, which she initially attributed to her ex’s “protective” nature.
As their relationship progressed, Firerose alleges that Cyrus warned her against public outings, claiming, “You’re a Cyrus now. You can’t be going to church. You can’t be going to public places where people could follow you home. You’re going to be murdered.” In official court documents, she has accused him of “extreme verbal, emotional and psychological abuse,” expressing concerns about her well-being during the divorce process.
Conversely, Billy Ray Cyrus has presented a starkly different narrative. In his court filings, he claims to be the victim of physical, verbal, and emotional abuse at the hands of Firerose. He alleges that she attempted to isolate him from his family and disrupted his relationships with his daughters. Furthermore, he has accused her of trying to control his career and mishandling his finances after their split, claims that she disputes.
These allegations emerge as Cyrus enters a new chapter in his personal life, dating actress Elizabeth Hurley. The couple has made appearances together at various award events, drawing media attention.
Firerose’s latest TikTok post focuses on providing support to those who may feel alone in their experiences. She emphasizes the importance of seeking help, directing viewers to resources for individuals in distress.
For those in need of immediate assistance, support is available. In Australia, individuals can contact emergency services by calling 000. For mental health support, Lifeline can be reached at 13 11 14, and for those under 25, the Kids Helpline is available at 1800 55 1800. Additionally, individuals facing domestic violence can reach out to 1800 RESPECT at 1800 737 732 for help in leaving harmful situations.
Firerose’s candid revelations contribute to a larger conversation about the impact of emotional abuse and the importance of supporting survivors.
