In a landmark decision, Australia is set to implement a ban on social media platforms for users under the age of 16, a move largely influenced by the tragic experiences of two grieving mothers. Emma Mason and Mia Bannister have become vocal advocates for the new legislation after losing their children to online bullying.
Emma Mason’s daughter, Tilly, ended her life following relentless online harassment. Mason, who carries Tilly’s ashes in a pendant around her neck, expressed her anger towards major tech companies, stating that their claims of responsibility are “so repugnant.” Similarly, Mia Bannister, who lost her son Ollie, keeps his memory alive in a small canister containing his ashes. Both mothers are unwavering in their commitment to prevent similar tragedies.
Starting December 10, 2023, over one million teenagers will be restricted from accessing popular platforms like Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, and YouTube. The new legislation mandates that these tech companies block under-16 users or face penalties of up to $50 million AUD for violations. This groundbreaking measure represents a significant shift in the regulation of social media use among minors.
The mothers played a crucial role in bringing this issue to the forefront, even accompanying Australian Prime Minister Anthony Albanese to New York, where they shared Tilly’s story with global leaders. Emma recounted how their children were subjected to a “social experiment” that they never consented to, which ultimately led to devastating consequences. “Because our children have been part of a social experiment that we didn’t sign up for, and we didn’t know was going to destroy them,” she reflected.
Statistics concerning online bullying are alarming. Last year, 57 percent of teenagers reported being bullied online, with 13 percent receiving messages urging them to harm themselves. Mia emphasized the gravity of the situation, stating, “I believe that when social media was unleashed on the world, it was the greatest social experiment of humankind.”
Despite facing backlash, Mason and Bannister stand firm in their belief that the tech giants are downplaying the risks associated with social media. Mason condemned their dismissive attitudes, citing “11 suicide attempts and a successful 12th” linked to online bullying. The trauma of their losses continues to weigh heavily on both families. “Unfortunately, I found Ollie, so I go to bed with that vision in my head every single night,” Mia shared, illustrating the profound emotional toll.
Both mothers have expressed feelings of guilt regarding their decisions to provide their children with smartphones, believing they were facilitating connection. “I thought it was connection, he could stay in touch with me, but I handed him a weapon,” Mia said, highlighting the unintended consequences of their choices.
Now, fueled by their losses, Mason and Bannister are determined to challenge the status quo of big tech. “I know we’re going to win this because we have to win it,” Emma declared. “We have to protect our children.”
For anyone facing a crisis or needing support, help is available. Lifeline can be reached at 13 11 14, and further information about mental health can be accessed through beyondblue at 1300 224 636 or by consulting a local health professional.
As Australian households prepare for the significant changes coming with the new law, a series of investigations will be conducted to explain the implications of this pioneering social media ban. Families across the nation are left to navigate the new landscape of digital interaction, hoping for a safer environment for their children.
